Fall is that time when the air grows crisp, the days grow shorter and our lives are fill with…leaves.
We have several trees in our yard, which means I rake and blow a lot of leaves. Fortunately, my city has a system that allows me to pile my leaves by the curb where they are picked up after Christmas. While this makes my life easier, removing leaves from my yard, roof and gutters consumes me.
I have learned, when an experience in life requires considerable commitment on my part, it soon becomes a part of my spiritual walk. I am not saying everything I do has a deep religious meaning. But since my faith guides me daily, even the most mundane activities provide opportunities to remember truths from God’s Word.
Which brings me to leaves. Not the beautiful colorful ones that hang on trees in the fall mind you. I speak of the brown, dry and wild ones that blow where they wish, complicating the lives of neighborhood dwellers everywhere. You may think I am out of my tree! But join with me as we consider these leaf lessons:
The first lesson involves the leaves I own. These are the ones that fall from my trees and land in my yard, bushes and gutters. They are a nuisance. Yet I feel an affinity toward them. I have known them since they were little buds, as my trees emerged from their winter hibernation. And yes, they are my trees. While I cannot claim them as dependents, each one of them are living organisms, drawing nourishment from the ground I own and offer to them freely. Should I grow tired of them, I would cut them down and pay to have them hacked into little pieces. Please don’t think badly of me. I merely wish to firmly establish what it means to possess trees and the leaves they drop at season’s end. We have an understanding. I provide the place, my trees provide shade in the summer and beauty in the fall, and I clean up the mess. It works. In like manner, I seem to cope best, though not perfectly, with managing the things I own. This includes my personal decisions, commitments, passions, dreams and mistakes. Of course, sometimes I am reluctant to accept ownership of things that belong to me; especially my mistakes. But once I recognize them, I know what I must do. I don’t mean to suggest I don’t need others to help me carry burdens of my own making. However, it is easier for me to process my own responsibilities. I remember the Apostle Paul’s words in Galatians 6:5 where he wrote, “For every man shall bear his own burden.” And so, I rake and blow my own leaves without grumbling or complaining; with the occasional exception of an evil thought directed at a tree as I mumble, “Maybe it is time for you to come down, my friend.”
Secondly, there are the leaves that others own; specifically, leaves others own, which fall or blow into my yard. Perhaps, one could debate leaf ownership depending on its location. And in case you are wondering, I pay close attention to the species of trees growing in my neighbors’ yards. I know when my leaf pile has been invaded! Not that it matters…much. Ok, a little. After I spend hours cleaning up my own leaves, I don’t want to manage more leaves that don’t belong to me; or at least didn’t belong to me until they drifted across my property line. When this happens, however, I am reminded that I am called to bear burdens I don’t own. The Apostle Paul wrote, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2). I must admit, in that the leaves from my trees fall by December, it is discouraging to wake up in the morning and discover my neighbor’s “late-fallers” have recarpeted my lawn, or that he has delayed his leaf clean-up and as a result his leaves have blown into my yard. Since one of my neighbors and I have lived next to each other for over 25 years, I really don’t mind his leaves much. He and his wife are faithful servants of Christ and we watch out for one another. But I also have some renters nearby with whom I have very little history. I do my best to build good relationships with all of my neighbors, yet… Let’s just say it is harder to keep my perspective with those I don’t know well. I think this is the case in most situations, whether I am managing leaves or any number of relational issues that test my patience. Every case is different, and while sometimes I don’t mind, other times I do. Regardless, I am called to carry other’s burdens. While Paul may have been speaking to believers, I think the Parable of the Good Samaritan compels me to add all of my neighbors to the list. No, they aren’t my leaves, but they become mine to care for when they enter my space.
Finally, there are leaves from my yard that wind up in my neighbor’s yards. This is an ugly secret I would rather not share. But there is no denying the truth. My leaves fall and blow into my neighbors’ yards. In addition, because I use the “pile-up” method by my curb, when the wind blows, leaves on top of the pile scatter. And many of them end up in other people’s yards. I wonder if some of my neighbors walk into their houses grumbling about the Jones guy who is unwilling to spend a little extra time to bag up his leaves. Or maybe they wonder why I don’t thin out my tree inventory to reduce its impact on others. And, I would be remiss if I did not share some more wisdom from the Apostle Paul who writes, “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.” (Galatians 6:4). I don’t think Paul is talking about leaves here, but he is asking me to step down from my proverbial “high horse” and stop comparing my actions to that of my neighbors. In truth, we are all just sojourning leaf “picker-uppers” trying to find our way home!
The next time you pick up a rake or leaf blower to clean up your yard consider the words of the Apostle. It may not make your job easier. And you might still get frustrated with your neighbors. But God’s word will help you keep your perspective when things pile up. As a result, you will gain a new appreciation for this season when our leaves bring us together.
If you have been struggling with Paul’s words and/or your neighbors, maybe it is time to turn over a new leaf! I will let you decide whether to put it in a bag or pile it by the curb.